My dear fellow Proverbs 31 women in progress,
Have you ever wondered what kind of energy you must bring to your relationship?
Are you confused of the role you should have when you get married?
In that case, this article will clarify what you need to hear. Because not every couple is supposed to function in the same way.
However, as Christian women, we are supposed to handle a specific role in our couples.
That’s why studying the difference between feminine women and masculine women is important. You’ll own your couple more easily.
And if you’re single, you’ll pick up men who correspond to your energy and will make less mistakes.
Are you ready for a feminine women vs. masculine women study?
If you are a woman who chooses to embody the feminine energy in your relationship, it means that you must choose to be cherished.
You must respect and revere the man in your life, as well as his ideas, his thoughts, his desires, and his opinions.
You must willingly submit to his leadership and let him provide for you.
It doesn’t mean that you can’t voice your opinions and say what you think, or be a yes-woman. Being submissive doesn’t mean that you are a doormat.
If you choose to have this kind of relationship, then you must choose a man who will pursue you and take care of you.
In exchange, you’ll have to look good, make him feel good and be subserviant in many areas (e.g. taking care of the house, cook for him…).
On the contrary, if you choose to be the masculine woman, it means that you exudes male energy.
And this means that you’ll choose to be respected.
You’ll be the one taking care of your man’s feelings above your own and be the chaser in the relationship.
You’ll be comfortable with taking all the decisions in the couple. But this doesn’t mean that you’ll castrate your man in the relationship either.
If you believe that this kind of relationship is for you, then you’ll pick up a man who is comfortable with being cherished.
You should choose a man who won’t be afraid of your strong personality and desires and who is ready to follow you in all your adventures.
What the Bible says
Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish. So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church.
The Bible calls us to have a relationship where women are submissive to men in marriage.
So, if you want to have a Biblical marriage you must strive to be a feminine woman.
Afterwards, every couple is different, and you are the one who must find your own balance which works for you.
Well, that’s all for today? Do you want to be a feminine woman or a masculine woman in your relationship?
Please answer in the comments below!
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